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Poll From: 12/16/2013

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How many serious relationships did you have before you met "the one"? Submitted By Pazu19, OH
0 - 2.
3 - 4.
5 - 6.
More than 6.
I'm still looking.
I'm not looking for "the one."
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Comment on this poll
SM1969
on 12/27/13
It took awhile but I have my soul mate thank God for that.
GeniusTrophyWife
on 12/21/13
I was young (I'm 23 so I guess I'm still young) when I found "the one" who is now my husband. He was under my nose the whole time. I've known him my whole life from church and by our families being longtime friends. Never in a million years though did I ever think I'd end up marrying him. Since I was so young when I first started dating him, I only had about 3 serious bfs before him. I was never IN love with them but I did love them to an extent. I didn't know the true meaning of being madly IN love until I started dating my now husband and slowly but surely fell deeply in love.
angelcowgirl
on 12/18/13
"Wrong Again." by Martina McBride. TRUEST ADVICE EVER GIVEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
MLConwell
on 12/17/13
cook72 liked this  
"He who finds a wife finds a good thing..."
cook72
on 12/17/13
natashavixen323 liked this  
Tell my husband, he didn't get that memo.
Shadybear7
on 12/17/13
hmmmm
mypontiacparts
on 12/17/13
angelcowgirl liked this  
I LIKE HOW YOU CAN Earn sb
AngelaChase
on 12/17/13
mypontiacparts and 1 others liked this  
I had to think about this for a moment. I was trying to consider which relationships I'd consider "serious". I decided that for me I'd include anyone I said "I Love You" to, as I don't throw that phrase around lightly. I suppose the distinction would be different for everyone.

As far as finding "the one", yes I do believe in it. Not in the mythical "there's one perfect person for everyone in the universe" kind of way. But I do want to find one person to spend my life with, and I believe that being with that person will feel very special and different from previous (less successful) relationships I've had.
sniddles
on 12/17/13
And you will, just have faith and never give up and don't set your expectations too high as your soul mate might be someone you never thought twice about.
You just know once you've found that connection. :)
queenmaureen
on 12/16/13
TheSigne and 2 others liked this  
I see there is a bunch of fibbers 1 or 2 relationships before they found "the one" or did they just settle in fear of being alone.
sweetpeajaysmom
on 12/17/13
Or maybe they don't fit in to your cookie cutter mold? How boring would it be if all our lives were the same?
sniddles
on 12/17/13
if everyone's life in the world be the same Yes I do agree.. but to have your partner like the things you do then no, choosing things to do is easy and going shopping makes life easy because you have the same tastes and there are no arguments. My 2nd husband is my soul mate as I am to him, don't not believe in something because you are sceptical.
The cookie cutter mould as you put it, well that only applies if you want to change your partner and what is the point of that, you either gel with your partner or you don't & if you don't then move on and find happiness else where.
:)
sniddles
on 12/17/13
Everyone has the "one" somewhere in the world, I do believe that after it happened to me. The key is not to go searching for that "one" but to get out there wether it would be on the internet or travel or out in your city and meet new people & don't set your expectations too high as your soul mate might be someone you never thought twice about.
You know once you've found that connection.
mainer1630
on 12/17/13
love at first sght
racer478
on 12/17/13
hmmm
RaunOrpheus
on 12/17/13
head ache so I choose to be alone.
IanNewYasha
on 12/16/13
sniddles liked this  
Never really looking for "the one", I just seem to come across her...
JaguarXing
on 12/16/13
SkeIeton and 1 others liked this  
That's soooo anime of you.
IanNewYasha
on 12/17/13
LOL!
mydoggyman
on 12/16/13
DonnaMK and 1 others liked this  
zero, my gf is the only "one".
JaguarXing
on 12/16/13
natashavixen323 and 6 others liked this  
"If you like it then you better put a ring on it." --PSA via Beyonce
mydoggyman
on 12/17/13
DonnaMK and 1 others liked this  
Soon, very soon! ;)
radhiks
on 12/17/13
departmental store shopping is enjoyable
Vocex
on 12/16/13
javakid liked this  
I've never been in a relationship. ._.
JSSL2
on 12/16/13
kazsi13 and 14 others liked this  
It's ok, I'm 23 and still a virgin (proud of it). Although I just wish society just stop pushing sex/sexuality/relationship into my face. -_-
Silvershade122
on 12/16/13
sweetpeajaysmom and 4 others liked this  
Ha, I know right. People always expect the same thing from everyone, they always have this generic shape they want to form on to us all, but it doesn't work like that. We're all snowflakes, all different.
roblov08
on 12/16/13
Ilovesparky13 and 3 others liked this  
Same here, they act as if I "need" someone and try to push people on me. If I wanted to be with someone I would, but it's just never been for me. Usually the ones I do like get on my nerves later on, and I ask myself, "Do I want to be in a relationship with that for the rest of my life?" Nope, I'm happy with just me and the friends and family I have.
milly1122
on 12/16/13
natashavixen323 and 1 others liked this  
Me too till i got married at 25, just be your self
natashavixen323
on 12/16/13
DonnaMK and 2 others liked this  
I am the same as you and wish they would stop doing that also..
nmbrown8639
on 12/16/13
I have been in relationships but only 2 serious relationships before I met my husband.
eway678
on 12/16/13
elisapizza liked this  
is anybody gay
MizzMoneypenny2u
on 12/16/13
SkeIeton and 3 others liked this  
No. No one is gay. Gay is a myth.

What kind of question is that? LOL
PamZastrocky
on 12/16/13
xxMasterPro liked this  
Your comment is by far the most ignorant thing I have seen on here. Ever.
milly1122
on 12/16/13
natashavixen323 liked this  
WHOS? THERES OR YOURS
sixteenk
on 12/16/13
Well I've lost hope cos I just can't seem to find her...aybe am too picky...I l find her thou or move to another country lol
spiritednight
on 12/16/13
Worry about my life more then looking for the 'one'.
Aredsgirl
on 12/16/13
sad sad lol
Dpowell2
on 12/16/13
queenmaureen liked this  
a lot of frogs
perla1990
on 12/16/13
He told me he was moving to another state I was 19 dating him for a month pack my stuff and moved 24hours from home
dmridley51
on 12/16/13
milly1122 and 4 others liked this  
What does one consider a serious relationship? The only one you you're dating? The one you're planing to marry and spend the rest of your life with? I've been married three times, and widowed three times. The first time for twenty-two years and two children. Twelve years the second time. Ten years the last time. I had very good marriages each time, but at mt age now I'm not going to do it again,so I'm not interested in dating either. I wont say I'll never date again, because because you don't know what God has in store for you.
monontnonny
on 12/16/13
the one...ya...one may hope.
leonardo10
on 12/16/13
queenmaureen and 3 others liked this  
Its hard to believe most people only had 2 serious relationships before they settled down. I thought most people dated more than that before meeting "the one". As for me, I thought I met the one a long time ago but apprently I'm still looking...lol
prattmama
on 12/16/13
sweetpeajaysmom liked this  
My sister married her first love and 25 years later they are still happily married with teenagers.
MizzMoneypenny2u
on 12/16/13
natashavixen323 liked this  
I guess this isn't a valid poll since it seems we all have such vastly different ideas of what a "serious relationship" is. I'm thinking someone you at least dated exclusively for more than a year and at least thought about making a comittment to. Not just someone you had a few dates with.
dashound2
on 12/16/13
milly1122 and 9 others liked this  
saw him at work and told my boss why can't somebody like that work here and she said he is I just got him the job, 2 weeks we were living together and 6 months later we were married, still going 36 years strong
HARLIED
on 12/16/13
Aww, how sweet! ?
brownie14
on 12/16/13
HARLIED and 2 others liked this  
Aww that's so nice...if only all relationships stayed strong like yours!
jayykush23
on 12/16/13
I HAD SEVERAL REALATIONSHIPS BEFOREI FOUNDTHE ONE.. BUT IM A FIRM BELIVER OR EVERYTHING HAPPENING FOR A REASON, IHAD TO GO THROUGH THEM TO GET READY FOR HER... IM HAPPY AND BLESSED.......
OnlineCash14
on 12/16/13
RainbowSparkles and 15 others liked this  
It's sad to see that people use the term "serious relationship". Every relationship you're in should be serious.
Parappa
on 12/16/13
Ilovesparky13 and 3 others liked this  
Why should they all be serious? Nothing wrong with casual dating as long as it's mutual. But if one person considers it serious and the other considers it casual, then obviously that's a problem. What's really sad is that you think everyone should do things based on your views instead of being allowed to decide for themselves. As long as they are in agreement and it's not harming anyone else, then who cares if it's serious or not??
HARLIED
on 12/16/13
sixteenk liked this  
That would be fine if it truly WERE mutual. Too many people will lie to the other person to make them THINK the relationship is more serious, then use the excuse, "Oh, I thought you knew we were just having fun".
richmoral
on 12/16/13
angelfire123 liked this  
Agree with you. Thought I've never even been in a relationship. Thought I finally found someone that loved me only to have her stab me in the back. And after all that talk about how other's were to her. She did exactly what she complained about other's doing to her to me. I would of never done anything to hurt her. Miss her like crazy.
Fuzzy06460
on 12/16/13
angelfire123 and 2 others liked this  
The relationship I was in when I was 16 and my boyfriend was 17 can hardly be called SERIOUS!! We dated exclusively, but sure weren't planning a life together!
osbornc01
on 12/16/13
angelloa and 4 others liked this  
I disagree. I consider the dates that I have been on to be some type of relationship, at least if I had been on multiple with one person. That being said, it doesn't mean it was a serious relationship. Just a fun relationship.
cdj41
on 12/16/13
angelfire123 and 1 others liked this  
I agree.
ccreid123
on 12/16/13
...
kbartle
on 12/16/13
natashavixen323 liked this  
Maybe there isn't one! :)
javakid
on 12/16/13
awesome
KarraBrown
on 12/16/13
That is a sad thought! :(
MizzMoneypenny2u
on 12/16/13
Maybe there's more than one. I mean, if your "one" was accidentally killed before you met them, then you'd just be screwed for life? Nah. I think there is more than one to choose from for all of us out there.
atagahi
on 12/16/13
Ilovesparky13 and 2 others liked this  
When I was younger finding "the one" was a goal but it just never really happened and as I have gotten older I have realized that no longer seems so important.
dalgal21
on 12/16/13
When I was younger my goal was getting a good education followed by a great job and was never "looking" for Mr. Right. It just happens.
sand1968
on 12/16/13
I had only one serious boyfriend before I met my husband of twenty-two years he is truly my soulmate and the one that God made just for me.
catsinjax
on 12/16/13
Qwassie and 2 others liked this  
I found the "one", and we were together for 8 years, when he was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. He passed away a month later. Since then, no more "ones". Really haven't even been looking.
MizzMoneypenny2u
on 12/16/13
natashavixen323 and 1 others liked this  
I'm sorry catsinjax. It's horrible that you lost your "one". (((hugs)))
thriftynaiad
on 12/16/13
natashavixen323 and 1 others liked this  
I'm sorry for your loss.
Jennifer1
on 12/16/13
sweetpeajaysmom and 2 others liked this  
I am surprised so many people answered 0 - 2. It's the answer I put, but I am still surprised. Pop Culture would have us believe that people do a lot of dating. Guess not.
thriftynaiad
on 12/16/13
I think that's the difference between "serious relationship" and "dating". I've been on a lot of first dates, but almost none of them lead to serious relationships (or even second dates, lol).
MegaGreydon
on 12/16/13
I wonder who the 9 percent of ppl are that are still looking for the one.
TeriLynneB
on 12/16/13
sweetpeajaysmom and 1 others liked this  
My husband has been my only serious relationship we met at 16 married at 18 and we've been married for 13 years now ! :) I got extremely lucky and met my one very young!
prisonerofsass
on 12/16/13
Ilovesparky13 and 1 others liked this  
I'm seventeen, I haven't even had any relationships yet, so I'm not exactly looking for "the one" right now.
SimonisSwag43
on 12/16/13
queenmaureen liked this  
Wow, never exactly thought people would have 0-2 dates before they met the one, a lot of people say they date TONS of girls/boys, but this poll shows how much people would lie in order to improve their reputation around people.
dalgal21
on 12/16/13
natashavixen323 and 2 others liked this  
There is a big difference between dating a lot of guys/women and being in a serious relationship as the survey asks.
Gavin20059
on 12/16/13
h
thedrudo
on 12/16/13
Still looking!
PaintsALot
on 12/16/13
swaaagduranie70 liked this  
No sex, no problems!
jeepie
on 12/16/13
milly1122 liked this  
I met the one
natashavixen323
on 12/16/13
Ilovesparky13 and 2 others liked this  
All the virgins are coming out the closet how cool is that and I thought I was the only one!
profile1
on 12/16/13
sweetpeajaysmom and 3 others liked this  
Still a virgin. Winning!
SwagSupa
on 12/16/13
Ilovesparky13 liked this  
There is no such thing as "the one".
Haiku88
on 12/16/13
javakid liked this  
1
natashavixen323
on 12/16/13
javakid and 1 others liked this  
IM STILL LOOKING...
Silvershade122
on 12/16/13
milly1122 and 1 others liked this  
Haven't started the whole love thing yet, but I'm sure someday I'll find that person. Just so busy busy with my self at the moment XD.
Emeli01
on 12/16/13
I'm in my first serious relationship and I believe he Is the one<3

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